05 September 2012

沒事,別將事閙大


這是我個人認爲:身為一個好上司,當他要了解下屬之間的衝突事故,他理應當先向當事人問個來龍去脈后,才通過旁人的看法去分析這件事的對與錯;而不是先向旁人問個究竟,因爲你自然的會作出未審先判的決定,這樣是對那兩位當事人很不公平的。而我所認爲身為一位好下屬,公私分明的定義是:在公事,做好自己的本分、閉起嘴巴工作、別多管閒事、別隨地向上司打小報告、別將一些很普通的事情化大,絕不因爲我跟同事私底下很要好而隱瞞上司的。

同事們的衝突難免會發生的。只要雙方面能沉著那一口怨氣,事情是絕定不會發生的:正所謂一只手掌是打不響的,若事情真的發生時,那兩個當事人無論誰對誰錯,都應該要負上一定的責任的。我選擇不講這件事的最大原因是:這件事只是小事一樁,因爲純粹是大家的看法不一緻,而不是因心病而引起的,也可以說大家都很累,隔天一覺醒來后就沒事了。

沒事,別將事閙大。

20 January 2012

吉蘭丹的美

吉蘭丹在咱們的心目中,難免會與伊斯蘭教給扯上關係,給它添上一個難以抓摸、深莫難測的最佳形容詞。其實呢,它並非如我們想象般的這麽神秘,它只是一個鮮少娛樂的一個州而已。

在年輕人的心目中,吉蘭丹的確缺少了一般如電影院、歌唱庭的娛樂休閒站。可是呢,它給與我們有別于他州的,那就是道德價值觀。吉蘭丹人的熱誠真的超乎我所想象般的!第一次,我被一位陌生人搭訕,以都市人的角度設想,肯定以爲他是有企圖的。到頭來原來是我以小人之心度君子之腹,誤會了他。那次也讓我開始覺得吉蘭丹是如此的美。有一次,爲了一個任務,我與我的小組朋友到辦事處走一趟,想要獲取更多有關醫院的資訊。那兒的職員都非常願意暫時放下手頭上工作來協助我們,并提供十分有用的訊息給我們。相比之下,別州的職員可沒像他們這麽熱誠地“招待”我們呢!閉門羹可會常常發生在我們身上噢!

種族關係會是吉蘭丹棘手的問題嗎?那你可是大錯得錯了!這裡彼此間的相處程度真的會讓你大跌眼鏡。齋舘不是只有華人與印度人享用而已、華人餐廳也會有友族的小販販賣食品,這樣的相處態度恐怕只會發生在吉蘭丹這個神秘之州吧!我們都議論紛紛,怎會有友族願意與華人一起在華人餐廳販賣食品呢?這現象對於吉蘭丹土生土長的人民而言,則是司空見慣般的,沒什麽特別呀!反而我覺得他們會反問我們爲何不能一起共處吧!

少了娛樂,反而我看見了他們健碩的身體。無可否認,他們的身材真讓我感到十分羡慕。他們都非常準時,一旦下午的來臨,他們就會放下功課,結伴地到草地踢足球、或到健身室健身、或者在校園跑步。這個現象幾乎不常發生在檳島的總校。我承認,我很少運動,也可以說是似乎不會作一些會讓自己流汗的活動。他們對運動的熱誠真的會讓我驚嘆不及。這也證實了娛樂與運動是勢不兩立、不能兩者兼施的!

誰說華人不能在那兒吃豬肉的?在哥打峇魯市裏,肉骨茶、燒包、滷豬腳、排骨是個很普遍的美食,而且是在與非常顯眼的地區哦!誰說那兒沒宗教自由?在道北、萬捷縣裏,擁有東南亞第一高的阿彌陀佛站佛、東南亞第二大的阿彌陀佛坐佛、以及全馬最大的睡佛。誰說店鋪只能放阿拉伯字的招牌而已?那兒的店鋪通常會放阿拉伯文、國文、以及中文給與華人所經營的店鋪哦!有時候反而覺得那兒所立的中文招牌會比他州來得更多。誰說那兒沒有華校?那兒除了有中正、中華這兩間囯民型華文小學以外,甚至還有一間獨中讓當地華人有機會接受華教。換句話來説,那兒並非我之前所想象的那麽極端。

吉蘭丹的美,只有你身臨其境方能了解,它絕非你想象的那麽糟糕。除了物價有點高、離開其它州屬的距離有點遠之外(地勢所故),其他的相信每個人來了此地后,會逐漸地發現它的美吧!

吉蘭丹,真的很美。

22 August 2011

头发

“你开始有脱发的迹象了。”

“一看就知道你梳这个发型是要掩盖你秃头的迹象。”

“这么你的头发越来越少了。”

“你这边很空喔。(指着我那秃头的方向)”

“梳来梳去就只有那几根头发罢了。”

“你都没有头发了,还要梳这样久干嘛?”

我很累!或许“你们”并觉得这句话是很普通的,但对我而言,这足以伤透了我的内心、刺穿我的自尊心、掩埋我的自信心。“你们”可知道吗?

我最伤心的时候,莫过于在我面对着镜子冲凉的时候。我很羡慕有些人可以任意改造自己的发型,而我只可以保留这唯一一种能够掩盖我的发型而已。

算了吧,这没得怨人的,就只能对着自己的头发进行倒数而已。

看开点吧,没头发没什么大不了。。。

06 July 2011

Special Foods in Sarawak

It’s my first time to comment the food that I tried during my precious and unforgettable Sarawak trip. All of these foods are nice and unique that we seldom or never tried it before at west Malaysia.

Sarawak laksa: Its taste like the combination of Penang style Hokkien mee with Ipoh style curry mee. Lime juice can be added to increase its sour taste and able to stimulate our appetite as well.

Fried bilin: My friend did mention that bilin actually is available in west Malaysia but it seldom makes it as dishes. Bilin is a kind of cheap vegetables that able to be found alongside. Its cooking style is just like kangkung cooking style in west Malaysia.

Fried oyster: It’s my first time that I ate fried oyster in this style. It fried alike ‘shrimp cakes’, as compared to what I ate it before, in which the oyster is covered with eggs and fried the all together. Overall the taste is not bad and I like it too.

Tomato mee: This one is quite unique that I couldn’t find it at west Malaysia. Tomato sauce is added into fried mee and it taste sweet and sour. I tried many stalls and I found that the portion of sweet and sour is different with each other.

Fish head meehoon: Milky style fish head meehoon is nice for me. Compared to that meehoon that I tried in KL, the fish here is fresh enough and the taste of milk is in correct portion that wouldn’t hide the other ingredient’s taste.

Sarawak kolok mee: Its taste like west Malaysia style wonton mee. However, wonton is not added in kolok mee. Minced meat like the toppings of Hakka mee is replacing wonton. It has 2 styles, whether you choose to add red char siew sauce (char siew sauce mee) or let it original (kampua). I prefer to add red char siew sauce because it able to make the taste sweety.

Red wine meeshua: This one taste sour and very delicious instead of able to stimulate your appetite too. My junior’s mum is adding two types of wine (normal cooking wine with grapes wine) into soup; I can taste the strong smell of wine by just eating meeshua. This one is nice! This one I like it much! Thanks of my junior’s mum that purposely cook this for us.

Zaocai meehoon: Another meehoon style that tastes sour due to vinegar is added into soup. That meehoon is quite different as compared to normal meehoon, its appearance is thicker than normal one. Compared to red wine meeshua, I still prefer red wine meeshua.

Sibu kong piah: This one is different compared to Sitiawan style kong piah. Sitiawan style more crispy, this may due to its thin crust. Another difference is the ingredient inside kong piah. Minced meat is added into Sibu style kong piah only, while for Sitiawan style kong piah, you can choose whether you want minced meat inside or with the combination of minced onion. Both styles have their own taste and I like both too.

Sugarbun chicken rice: It only available in Sarawak. It used the same concept as KFC, with some modifications, asian delights is added into its menu! The food available is suite for asian people and more options provided to us instead of chicken. The chicken rice is not bad, and its rice is cooked with raisins. Nice!

Fish head curry: This one is totally different on what I tried in Ipoh. Miri fish head curry is mainly on spicy like Chinese style curry, while Ipoh style fish head curry is mainly on sour spicy like Siam style curry. Both also have their own taste and uniqueness. I like both too.

‘black-white fish’: its first time I heard the presence of this fish. One side is black in colour (grilled), another side is white in colour (steamed). Its cooking style is alike normal Malay style that grilled with sambal sauce.

Marudi koay teow: The koay teow is unlike Penang style or even Ipoh style koay teow. The shape is uneven and the appearance is much thicker. The cooking style is actually the same; just u can feel the different in the taste of koay teow.

The purpose of commenting foods in Sarawak is as the guideline to my friends, so that they won’t miss out any of these special foods that are available in Sarawak.

My life during attachment at BM hospital

It’s been a while I didn’t update my blog already…This time I try to use English to write this post, not because of I want to train my English, is just I kind of lazy to type Chinese one by one, and sometimes u will feel exhausted to try in errors in type some strange word or even common words that usually u will pronounce them wrongly…

I’m just came back from attachment at hospital for a month…I’m really miss the moment staying at my friend’s house with another course mate too. My friend’s family treated us very well, like become kings of their house le. I do enjoy every moment at there too. Here, I want to thank his family that allows me to stay at their house for a MONTH! One month stayed at friend house is really long. House expenses will be increased, as they need to prepare meal for me, they need to entertain me during weekends, they need to take care of me everyday… It’s frankly to say that my presence in their house will make them feel burden and inconveniences. The most unforgettable moment during the whole month is his mum’s cook. His mum cooks very suite my taste, yet I still miss his mum cook. Not to say that I stereotyping that every Teochiew lady expert in cooking, it is the truth! I very satisfy with their cooking style, like his mum, my ex-roommate’s mum and my hometown aunt, they all able to cook delicious dishes very well. Back to my previous topic, they are very friendly to me, although I keep on disturbing them hehe (not kind of disgusting action that I made, is just I always keep on chatting with them, ask them go to enjoy free air-conditioning service in shopping complexes haha). Anyway, I like their family, I appreciate their kindness and I won’t forget their enthusiasm forever.

How was my working life there? Nice! I was arranged to join 3 departments, OPD (Outpatient department), Ward supply Department and lastly Clinical Department. I would say that OPD is the department that I like the most. Maybe OPD is the first department that I entered, or maybe I stayed the longest period at that department, or maybe I interacted the most with the staffs there as compared to another 2 departments. Ward supply Department is quite nice too, this one I do agree. However, interaction with the staffs there was lesser than OPD department. And one more important point is I do sweat a lot during my attachment at that department. Surprisingly I feel very hot there, although there had 2 air cons (compared to OPD that had 4 air cons) provided with some fans there. I would think that air circulation system is the major factors that cause me feel hot and do a lot of sweating there. How was my feeling at Clinical Department? Not so good compared to others. I’m felt angry when I noticed that the role of pharmacist there can be ignored during ward check and during discussion on how to treat that patients sickness, or even the nurses played more important role than PHARMACISTS! It’s very obvious to notice that they would just ask the pharmacist the amount of medications left in hospital, whether those medications have any quota left, like treating pharmacist as a store man! They rather do check the amount of medication they need to dispense via their phone, not to take advice from PHARMACIST that just stand beside them! I just feel ashamed to them due to their ego and selfish.

I was sick for almost a month during my one-month-attachment there. Here I can conclude is, I not suitable to work in hospital. My immune system is very weak; even I get sick without direct contact with the patients. Now I’m able to roughly imagine my life during my government service then, I need to dispense myself medications everyday! Although I never step into life working in factory right now, at least I can avoid myself to stay together with bacteria and viruses everyday! Instead of this factor, my weak clinical knowledge also one of the major concerns that I not suitable in clinical life. As clinical pharmacist, clinical knowledge is the most important weapons to survive there. Doctors won’t ask simple and easy questions to pharmacists, as they would only ask your opinion when they found nothing in reference books or journals. You need a strong clinical basis so that you won’t looked down by doctors, then only doctors would appreciate your ‘participation’ during ward check then. I knew that many of my friend would say that I wish to enter industrial life is because of I’m greedy, I want to earn money as much as possible, they just not to comprehend myself deeply nia. I’m sure that those know me well sure able to understand my current situation. Anyway, attachment in BM hospital is good enough to make me clearer to my future on which pathway that I suppose to enter and which alternatives that I need to choose then. Thanks for BM attachment, thanks for my friends that we fight together during one-month-attachment, and specially thanks again to my friend’s family and I wish all the best to them in future and do invite me for their next wedding ceremony ya…